Rite of Marriage

weevn c×wZ

‡ivgvb ixwZ Abymv‡i mvaviYZ wZb ai‡bi weevn ixwZ ev c×wZ j¶¨ Kiv hvq| h_v:

1) LªxóhvMmn weevn Abyôvb

                                                                                    2) LªxóhvM e¨ZxZ weevn Abyôvb

                                                                              3) Lªxóvb I A-Lªxóv‡bi weevn Abyôvb

                                                     

1| LªxóhvMmn weevn Abyôvb

K) cÖ‡ekvbyôvb

§  eiY Abyôvb

* †`kxq ixwZ

§  cÖ‡ewkKv MxwZ

§  ¯^vMZ m¤¢vlY

§  ¶gv Abyôvb

§  D‡Øvab cÖv_©bv

L) HkevYx †NvlYv

§  1g cvV cyivZb wbqg †_‡K

§  2q  ,,   b~Zb    ,,      ,,  

§  g½jmgvPvi

§  Dc‡`k cÖ`vb

M) weevn ms¯‹vi

§  ei-K‡Y‡K hvR‡Ki Avnevb

§  m¤§wZ cÖKvk

§  weevn cÖwZÁv

(weKí ixwZ)

§  AvswU wewbgq

* fviZxq Dcgnv‡`‡ki ixwZ

§  gvj¨ wewbgq

§  wm`~ui `vb

§  be`¤úwZi cÖv_©bv

§  mve©Rbxb cÖv_©bv

N) hÁvbyôvb

            1| hÁ-cÖ¯‘wZ

§  AN©¨ Avbqb

§  Ac©Y cÖv_©bv

           

            2| hÁ-wb‡e`b

§  ab¨evw`Kv ¯‘wZ

§  DrmM© wewa-weavb

           

            3| hÁ-‡fvR

§  cÖfyi cÖv_©bv

§  ‰eevwnK Avkxe©v`

§  LªxócÖmv` weZiY

§  mgvcb cÖv_©bv

§  we`vq Avkxe©v`

1| LªxóhvMmn weevn Abyôvb

K) cÖ‡ekvbyôvb

• eiY Abyôvb : wbw`©ó Kiv mg‡q Lªxóhv‡Mi Rb¨ cÖ¯‘Z n‡q hvRK, †meKmn Ab¨vb¨iv

wMR©vi cÖ‡ek c‡_ ei-K‡Y‡K ¯^vMZ Rvbv‡eb|

*†`kxq ixwZ : wMRv©i cÖ‡ekgy‡L ei-K‡Y‡K Af¨_©bv Rvbv‡bvi Rb¨ GK eiY-Abyôvb Kiv n‡q _v‡K

Z‡e GB eiY-Abyôvb bv K‡i mivmwi Lªxóhv‡Mi gva¨‡g weevn Abyôvb ïi“ Kiv ‡h‡Z cv‡i|

• cÖ‡ewkKv MxwZ : weev‡ni Mvb|
• ¯^vMZ m¤¢vlY: wÎ-e¨w³ ci‡gk¦‡ii bv‡g hvRK LªxóhvM ïi“ Ki‡eb| weevn ms¯‹vi Abyôv‡b mevB‡K ¯^vMZ Rvbv‡eb|
• ¶gv Abyôvb
• D‡Øvab cÖv_©bv

L) HkevYx †NvlYv

* weev‡ni Dchy³ cvV wb‡Z n‡e| g~jZ: wZbwU cvV _v‡K|

            - 1g cvV cyivZb wbqg †_‡K

            - 2q  ,,   b~Zb    ,,      ,,  ,

Ges       - g½jmgvPvi

• Dc‡`k cÖ`vb : hvRK Dc‡`k †`b cvV Kiv kv¯¿ Abymv‡i| wZwb e‡jb Lªxóvb weev‡ni inm¨ m¤^‡Ü, weevwnZ fvjevmvi gh©v`v m¤^‡Ü, weevn ms¯‹v‡ii K…cv m¤^‡Ü Ges weevwnZ Rxe‡bi `vwqZ¡-KZ©e¨ m¤^‡Ü| Zv‡K Aek¨B H wbw`©ó weev‡ni cvwicvwk©K Ae¯’v m¤^‡Ü Ávb ivL‡Z n‡e|

M) weevn ms¯‹vi

• ei-K‡Y‡K hvR‡Ki Avnevb: ei-K‡Ymn mevB D‡V `uvov‡e Ges hvRK mevi mvg‡b Zv‡`i‡K Zv‡`i weev‡ni m¤§wZ cÖKv‡ki Rb¨ Avnevb Rvbv‡eb|
• m¤§wZ cÖKvk: hvRK ei-K‡Y‡K cÖkœ Ki‡eb Ges Zviv m¤§wZ Rvwb‡q DËi w`‡e| Gmgq  Zv‡`i gvjv cwi‡q †`qv †h‡Z cv‡i ev weevn cÖwZÁvi ci Zv civ‡bv †h‡Z cv‡i|
• weevn cÖwZÁv: hvRK I mevi mvg‡b ei-K‡Y Zv‡`i weev‡ni cÖwZÁv Ki‡eb| Zviv G‡K G‡K ej‡e-

Avwg (wb‡Ri bvg), (ei-K‡Yi bvg)

‡Zvgv‡K Avgvi cZœx/cwZiƒ‡c MÖnY KiwQ|

Avwg GB cÖwZÁv KiwQ †h,

AvR †_‡K my‡L `y:†L, a‡b `vwi‡`ª¨, ¯^v‡¯’¨ A¯^v‡¯’¨

Avwg AvRxeb †Zvgvi cÖwZ wek¦¯— _vKe,

‡Zvgv‡K fvjevme I m¤§vb K‡i Pje|

* weKí ixwZ

hvRK ei-K‡Y‡K wRÁvmv Ki‡eb Ges Zviv DËi w`‡q cÖwZÁv Ki‡e|

hvRK :(ei-K‡Yi bvg), Zzwg wK (ei-K‡Yi bvg)-‡K

‡Zvgvi cZ¥x/cwZiƒ‡c MÖnY Ki‡Z PvI?

Zzwg wK cÖwZÁv KiQ †h,

AvR †_‡K my‡L `y:†L, a‡b-`vwi‡`ª¨, ¯^v‡¯’¨ A¯^v‡¯’¨

AvRxeb Zzwg Ii cÖwZ wek¦¯— _vK‡e,

I‡K fvjevm‡e I m¤§vb K‡i Pj‡e|

ei-K‡Y: Avwg ZvB PvB, Avwg †mB cÖwZÁv KiwQ|

hvRK Zv‡`i m¤§wZ MÖnY K‡i Zvi `„pZv `vb Ki‡eb| ZLb GKUv Avb‡›`i Mvb MvIqv †h‡Z cv‡i|

* g‡b ivLv `iKvi †h, hw` GKm‡½ GKvwaK †Rvov weevn K‡i Zvn‡j cÖ‡Z¨K ei-K‡Y‡K Avjv`v Avjv`vfv‡e Zv‡`i weev‡ni m¤§wZ cÖKvk Ki‡Z n‡e, weev‡ni cÖwZÁv Ki‡Z n‡e Ges hvRK Zvi `„pZv `vb Ki‡eb| Z‡e ˆeevwnK Avkxe©v` GK m‡½ †`qv hvq|

§  AvswU wewbgq: AvswU fvjevmv I wek¦¯—Zvi wPý| ei-K‡Y Zv‡`i fvjevmv I wek¦¯—Zvi

wPý wn‡m‡e AvswU wewbgq K‡i _v‡K| hvRK AvswU `yÕwU Avkxe©v` Ki‡eb| cÖ_‡g ei K‡Y‡K cwi‡q w`‡e Ges c‡i K‡Y ei‡K cwi‡q w`‡e| civ‡bvi mgq Zviv ej‡e-

Avgvi fvjevmv I wek¦¯—Zvi wPýiƒ‡c

Zzwg GB AvswU MÖnY I aviY Ki-

wcZv cyÎ I cweÎ AvZ¥vi bv‡g|

* fviZxq Dcgnv‡`‡ki ixwZ

fviZxq Dcgnv‡`‡ki ixwZ Abymv‡i gvjv wewbgq I wmu`~i `vb - AbyôvbI Kiv n‡q _v‡K|

§  gvj¨ wewbgq: gvjv n‡”Q AvZ¥`v‡bi wPý| ei-K‡Y gvjv e`j K‡i G‡K A‡b¨i Kv‡Q

wb‡R‡KB `vb K‡i| hvRK gvjv `yÕwU‡K Avkxe©v` Ki‡eb| cÖ_‡g K‡Y e‡ii Mjvq gvjv cwi‡q w`‡e Ges c‡i ei K‡Yi Mjvq gvjv civ‡e| gvjv civ‡bvi mgq ei-K‡Y ej‡e-

Zzwg GB cy®úgvj¨

Avgvi AvZ¥`v‡bi wPýiƒ‡c cwiavb Ki-

wcZv cyÎ I cweÎ AvZ¥vi bv‡g|

§  wm`~ui `vb: fviZxq Dcgnv‡`‡k wm`u~i mZxZ¡ I cweÎZvi cÖZxK| ei K‡Y‡K Zvi

wmuw_‡Z wmu`~i cwi‡q †`q| ¯¿x mviv Rxeb Zvi cweÎ i¶v K‡i P‡j| hvRK civevi Av‡M wmu`~i Avkxe©v` K‡ib|

§  be`¤úwZi cÖv_©bv : be`¤úwZ Zv‡`i `v¤úZ¨ Rxe‡bi g½j Kvgbvq wgwjZ cÖv_©bv Ki‡Z

cv‡i| G mgq GKwU Dchy³ Mvb MvIqv †h‡Z cv‡i|

§  mve©Rbxb cÖv_©bv

N) hÁvbyôvb

1| hÁ-cÖ¯‘wZ

§  AN©¨ Avbqb: ei I K‡Y i“wU I `ªv¶vimmn DrmM©mvgMÖx ‡e`x‡Z wb‡q Avm‡Z cv‡i| G mgq Mvb Pj‡e|

§  Ac©Y cÖv_©bv

2| hÁ-wb‡e`b

• ab¨evw`Kv ¯‘wZ: hvRK Dchy³ ab¨evw`Kv ¯‘wZ Ave„wË Ki‡eb|
• DrmM© wewa-weavb: hvRK Lªxóhv‡Mi Dchy³ cÖv_©bv wb‡eb|

           

3| hÁ-‡fvR

• cÖfyi cÖv_©bv
• ‰eevwnK Avkxe©v`: cÖfyi cÖv_©bvi ci hvRK Ab¨ cÖv_©bvi cwie‡Z© ˆeevwnK Avkxe©v‡`i

cÖv_©bv Ki‡eb| Gmgq ei-K‡Y †e`xi mvg‡b `vuov‡e| wZwb ei I K‡Yi gv_vi Dci nvZ cÖmvwiZ K‡i cÖv_©bvwU Ki‡eb|

• kvwš— wewbgq

• LªxócÖmv` weZiY
• mgvcb cÖv_©bv
• we`vq Avkxe©v`: cÖ_‡g hvRK ei-K‡Y‡K Avkxe©v` Ki‡eb Ges c‡i Lªxóf³‡`i Avkxe©v` Ki‡eb|

2) LªxóhvM e¨ZxZ weevn Abyôvb

GB ixwZ/c×wZ mvaviYfv‡e GKRb wWKb e¨envi K‡ib| dv`vi (cvjcy‡ivwnZ ev wek‡ci cÖwZwbwa wn‡m‡e Zv‡`i AbywgZ mv‡c‡¶ wZwb GB c×wZ‡Z weevn Abyôv‡b mvnvh¨ Ki‡Z cv‡ib Ges gÛjxi bv‡g ei-K‡Y‡K Avkxe©v` Ki‡Z cv‡ib|

K) cÖ‡ekvbyôvb

§  eiY Abyôvb

* †`kxq ixwZ

§  cÖ‡ewkKv MxwZ

§  ¯^vMZ m¤¢vlY

§  D‡Øvab cÖv_©bv

L) HkevYx †NvlYv

§  1g cvV cyivZb wbqg †_‡K

§  2q  ,,   b~Zb    ,,      ,,  

§  g½jmgvPvi

§  Dc‡`k cÖ`vb

M) weevn ms¯‹vi

§  ei-K‡Y‡K hvR‡Ki Avnevb

§  m¤§wZ cÖKvk

§  weevn cÖwZÁv

(weKí ixwZ)

§  AvswU wewbgq

* fviZxq Dcgnv‡`‡ki ixwZ

§  gvj¨ wewbgq

§  wm`~ui `vb

§  be`¤úwZi cÖv_©bv

§  mve©Rbxb cÖv_©bv

§  ‰eevwnK Avkxe©v`

N) mgvcb Abyôvb

hw` LªxócÖmv` weZiY Kiv bv nq, Zvn‡j †kl n‡e-

§  cÖfyi cÖv_©bv

§  we`vq Avkxe©v`

hw` LªxócÖmv` weZiY Kiv nq, Zvn‡j †kl n‡e-

§  cÖfyi cÖv_©bv

§  kvwš— wewbgq

§  LªxócÖmv` weZiY

§  mgvcb cÖv_©bv

§  we`vq Avkxe©v`

3) Lªxóvb I A-Lªxóv‡bi weevn Abyôvb

K) cÖ‡ekvbyôvb

§  eiY Abyôvb

* †`kxq ixwZ

*HkevYx Abyôv‡bi gva¨‡g weevn Abyôvb ïi“ n‡e|

L) HkevYx †NvlYv: wZbwU cvV _vK‡Z cv‡i Avevi GKwUgvÎ cvVI ‡bqv †h‡Z cv‡i|

§  1g cvV cyivZb wbqg †_‡K

§  2q  ,,   b~Zb    ,,      ,,  

§  g½jmgvPvi

§  Dc‡`k cÖ`vb

M) weevn Abyôvb

§  ei-K‡Y‡K hvR‡Ki Avnevb

§  m¤§wZ cÖKvk

§  weevn cÖwZÁv

(weKí ixwZ)

§  AvswU wewbgq

* fviZxq Dcgnv‡`‡ki ixwZ

§  gvj¨ wewbgq

§  wm`~ui `vb

§  be`¤úwZi cÖv_©bv

§  mve©Rbxb cÖv_©bv

§  ‰eevwnK Avkxe©v`

hw` ˆeevwnK Avkxe©v` bv †`qv nq, Zvn‡j ïay cÖv_©bv Kiv nq|

N) mgvcb Abyôvb

§  cÖfyi cÖv_©bv

§  we`vq Avkxe©v`

mnvqKMÖš’mg~n:

# weevn c×wZ, Rite of Marriage, The Liturgical Service Centre, Calcutta, 1974.

# HOWELL, CLIFFORD, S.J., Companionto the new order of marriage, Goodliffe Neale, Alcester, 1970.

weevn mv¶vrKvi

WwgwbK †ivRvwiI

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1| GZ eQi weevwnZ Rxeb AwZevwnZ Kivi ci weevn wel‡q Avcbvi aviYv wK?

WwgwbK: 40 eQi weevwnZ Rxeb AwZevwnZ Kivi ci weevn wel‡q Avgvi `yÕiK‡gi aviYv n‡q‡Q, GKUv we‡qi Av‡M Ges Ab¨Uv we‡qi c‡i| K)we‡qi c~‡e© Av‡kcv‡k A‡b‡KB †`‡LwQ we‡q K‡iwQ‡jb| Ges G‡`i msmv‡i bvbv mgm¨v j¶¨ K‡iwQ| ZeyI Avwg weevwnZ Rxe‡b cÖ‡ek Ki‡ev -GB wm×vš— wb‡qwQ Ges Avgvi Rxe‡b mgm¨v ˆZix n‡e bv ev †Póv Ki‡ev hv‡Z †hb Zv bv nq| GR‡b¨ gv gvixqvi Kv‡Q cÖv_©bv K‡iwQ| (L) we‡qi ci AvR‡Ki aviYv Ab¨ iKg| mš—vb‡`i wb‡q A‡bK `vwqZ¡ cvjb Ki‡Z nq| ZvB A‡bKevi mgm¨v n‡q‡Q Ges Avš—wiKZvi mv‡_ ‡mme mgm¨v †gvKv‡ejv K‡iwQ, AvRI KiwQ Ges AvRxeb Zv Ki‡Z n‡eB| ZvB AvR‡Ki aviYv - weevwnZ Rxe‡b me©`vB mgm¨v n‡e| Avgv‡`i KvR n‡e Zvime¸‡jvB Kó n‡jI Rxe‡bi cwikyw× jv‡fi Rb¨ mewKQzB Ck¦‡ii Kv‡Q DrmM© Kiv|

2| Lªxwóq weevn m¤^‡Ü wK ej‡eb?

WwgwbK: Lªxwóq weevn GKwU DrK…ó e¨e¯’v Ges cweÎ mvµv‡gš— hv ¯^qs Ck¦i GKÎ K‡i‡Qb Avi ‡KD †hb Zv Avjv`v bv K‡ib| ZvB cÖfyi B”Qv †hgb ¯^‡M© †Zgwb g‡Z©I †hb c~Y© nq| gvbe RvwZi esg e„wׇZ weevn AZ¨š— cª‡qvRb| G †h Ck¦‡iiB cwiKíbv Avgv‡`i Rxe‡b| 

3| Lªxwóq weevn I Ab¨vb¨ a‡g©i weevn -Gi g‡a¨ wK Avcwb †Kvb cv_©K¨ †`‡Lb?

WwgwbK: mKj a‡g©B weevn GK cweÎ wewa-e¨e¯’v| wKš‘ Lªxwóq weevn GK AwØZxq e¨e¯’v hvi †Kvb Zzjbv nq bv| Lªxó a‡g© weevn GK cweÎ `vwqZ¡ †hLv‡b †h †Kvb GKR‡bi g„Zy¨ Qvov wØZxq evi we‡q Kivi AbygwZ †bB| Lªxóa‡g© ei-K‡Y Zv‡`i m¤ú~Y© ¯^vaxb B”Qv‡Z weevn e܇b Ave× nq| Ab¨ a‡g© GgbwU †`Lv hvq bv|

4| wW‡fvm© ev weevn we‡”Q` m¤ú‡K© wKQz ejyb|

WwgwbK: wW‡fvm© n‡jv weev‡ni wbqg¸‡jv f½ Kiv| Kv_wjK gÛjx‡Z hv wbwl×| weev‡ni mgq †h kZ©¸‡jv  AvRxeb cvjb Kivi Rb¨ A½xKvi Kiv nq wW‡fv‡m© Zv f½ Kiv nq| ïaygvÎ Kv_wjK gÛjx wW‡fvm©‡K KwVbfv‡e ÔbvÕ e‡j‡Q| Ab¨vb¨ a‡g© GwU AninB NU‡Q|

5| Avcbvi Rxeb AwfÁZvq eZ©gvb Lªxwóq weev‡ni g~j¨vqb Ki‡eb wK?

WwgwbK: GKgvÎ mr I ag©xq Rxeb hvc‡bi gva¨‡gB weevwnZ Rxe‡b mwVK c_ Luy‡R cvIqv hvq| e¨w³Rxe‡b ag©xq Abykvmb †g‡b Pjvi gva¨‡g cvi¯úwiK m¤úK© DbœZ Kiv mnR nq| Av‡M gvbyl Lªxwóq Rxeb hvcb Ki‡Zv| wKš‘ eZ©gv‡b gvbyl ag© †_‡K †Kgb †hb `~‡i m‡i hv‡”Q| d‡j evev-gv‡qi mv‡_ mš—vb‡`i `~iZ¡ evo‡Q| hyeK-hyeZxiv wec_Mvgx n‡”Q| Zviv weev‡ni cweÎZv I Awe‡”Q`¨Zvi wel‡q ‡Zgb Rv‡b bv| KviY Zviv evev-gv I mgvR †_‡K †Zgb †`L‡Z cvq bv|

6| Lªxwóq weev‡ni Awe‡”Q`¨Zv wel‡q wKQz ejyb

WwgwbK: Lªxwóq weev‡n Awe‡”Q`¨Zv AZ¨š— ¸i“Z¡c~Y© welq| Avgv‡`i Rxe‡b Ava¨vwZ¥KZv AZ¨š— cÖ‡qvRb| Lªxwóq weevn GKwU mwÜ I mvµv‡gš—| GwU AvRxe‡bi Rb¨| Gme wel‡q eZ©gvb †Q‡j‡g‡q‡`i wk¶v w`‡Z n‡e|